Marla and Catherine Hanna
Twenty-one years ago today my brother David Lawrence Hanna married my friend Marla Michelle Martin. Marla asked me not only to be her maid of honor, but also to make her wedding dress. Naturally I agreed to all of the above, and I figured while I was at it I could make my own dress as well. I did not worry that I had bitten off more than I could chew because I had plenty of time. Yet there is one significant character trait of mine I forgot to factor in when calculating time to complete the dress - my tendency to procrastinate.
As a rule, I save for the last minute what could be planned and completed weeks in advance, and I am learning this is only acceptable when others are not involved, i.e. a bride waiting in the wings for her wedding dress.
One day, about a week before the wedding, David calmly asked me when I thought I might begin working on the bride's dress. Sitting there as he patiently talked to me, it came as revelation how completely inconsiderate I was being to my brother and future sister-in-law. Panic ensued; actually it had been ensuing in the bride for weeks, I was just catching up.
So I began cutting, fitting, sewing, ripping, pressing, hemming and all at break neck speed. Then, while sewing on miles and miles of white satin, in the wee small hours of the morning, I pricked my finger and bleed all over the dress. I tried to get it out with a cold, damp cloth, but it just smeared grayish everywhere.
So, in utter despair, I got up and walked down the street and sat on the steps of the Episcopal Church. As I sat there in my failure I noticed some kids had vandalized the neighborhood church. The little delinquents had spray painted the word SATAN onto the sidewalk leading up to the church entrance. I smiled as I read the word, because they had misspelled SATAN and instead wrote SATIN. I took it as sign from above and was comforted with the knowledge that God was paying attention and involved in what was happening in our lives. I returned to my room to find the dress had dried white as snow.
I never doubted the dress would not be ready on time from that moment on. Granted I was hemming it in the dressing room of the church on the day of the wedding, but we all walked the aisle fully clothed.

Mr. and Mrs. David L. Hanna