It's interesting to me how a person can be dead but we still remember them on their birthdays. I guess it's because I have had more years remembering (and sometimes forgetting) Dad's birthday than I have remembering his deathday.
Dad died in May (can't remember the year). It was final exam week and I remember the first person I told he had died was Philip Shirley; we were standing outside the annex at RFHS.
I have all these vivid memories, but I can't remember the day it happened.
I miss him..... a lot.
Bill was a very locked-in person, a product of his upbringing I'm sure. I loved him so much when we married, but I was terribly young and spoiled and didn't make enough of an effort to understand him or get through to him. It was almost a relief to me when we divorced because that love I had felt for him when we married was gone. Then afterwards when he remarried, I thoroughly resented the fact that he could never find time for his two little children who loved him and missed him. I know he loved them. I'm just glad that he found somebody who had a ax big enough to break the ice. But don't forget he was a really good guy, just not a good guy for me.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday, Bill.
Well there you have it.
ReplyDelete2 out of three aint bad.
Who's out?
My guess, Baby Dave.
Baby Dave,
ReplyDeletePlease elaborate..... so Suri CAT, I know you don't like us using your blog as a virtual hub on the "enterweb." Let's call it OUR SPACE... for Team Hanna members ONLY! Seee what ahm sayin'??
Meanwhile, it is December 11, 2006 -- CATHERINE EVE! I am really looking forward to your BIRTHDAY BLOG--please do not disappoint! Happy Day before your birthday!
......uhh, what are you talking about Laurel? I don't do the 12 Days of Cat every month; that would be a little too self serving even for me.
ReplyDeleteCatherine Dear,
ReplyDeleteI don't get it -- I didn't get the memo. SZHUU donno whah happeen? My head hurts.
I have bad very rememberances (SQL) But YOU have got a good thang goin on up in hur. (Jillian hates it when I say things like that.) I know, I know, just hit her.... per your advice for the last decade or so.
P.S. NOTE TO TEAM HANNA -- Yes, the 12 days of Catherine -- as of 2006 -- do indeed apply to every month from now until the end of time. Duh.
Love, Laurel
ATTENTION TEAM HANNA:
ReplyDeleteTwo words: HER LIST!!!!!